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Thursday 20 August 2009

Is a Honeymoon Essential?

Are facial creams essential, is eating chocolate essential…… well I do think so!  The honeymoon allows the couple to be together just you and your new partner, it will allow you to relax, reminisce about your special day, and it is a great beginning to a wonderful life together. Weddings can sometimes be stressful. Even if you leave it all to your wedding planner, your mother, sister or mother in law. 

The whole build up to the wedding takes away your time together and during the days you are away, your main focus will be and should be your family and friends who have come from afar to spend this special time with you. On researching the reason behind our understanding of the honeymoon I came upon this which I am sure you will enjoy. Possibly the earliest reference to a honeymoon is in Deuteronomy 24:5: “When a man is newly wed, he need not go out on a military expedition, nor shall any public duty be imposed on him. He shall be exempt for one year for the sake of his family, to bring joy to the wife he has married.” The honeymoon is an essential start to your lives together and it only happens once, so take advantage of this very special moment.

What Makes A Great Honeymoon?
The world of the honeymoon is jam-packed with great sounding words……the perfect honeymoon, specialists, romantic, heaven, amazing, awesome, luxurious, the best, the words just keep on flowing. But what makes a great honeymoon apart from you and your partner? When thinking about your honeymoon here are a few tips of what you may want to consider:

1. Decide how much you want to spend and set aside a budget. Yes this is your honeymoon but you do not have to pay a fortune for something amazing and wonderful. (Only speaking here about Italy!!) Once you have decided on a budget…

2. You need to consider where you will be in relation to your honeymoon destination and either by yourself or with the help of your travel coordinator or travel agent, you should review the logistics of getting there and the best way to get there with the least hassle.

3. Make a list of all the things you like and what you really want to get out of your honeymoon. Everybody says that your honeymoon should reflect the special interests you share as a couple. So start getting your list in order!

4. You may want to organise the honeymoon yourself as a gift to the one you love? So you will need to arrange it all, but what a great gift for you both to share.

Here are some romantic suggestions which we have put together for past clients and yes, you guessed it… all possible in LA BELLA ITALIA and yes of course, all arranged and confirmed by The Italian Connection.... connecting you to the very best italy has to offer:

 
Our Top 10 suggestions to Enhance your Honeymoon

All the following should be considered as add-ons to the location and the property selected and these are all examples of what Weddings Made In Italy, The Italian Connection and Spirito Italiano can organise for you.

1. Activities which both of you can take part in.  Cooking courses, horse-riding, cycling, rock climbing, scuba diving, wine appreciation class, sailing …… arrange a trip which you can enjoy together.

2. Definitely good food and wine. It is essential that when you go away that you ask your travel coordinator or your travel agency to give you a list of great places to go and eat. Breakfast and lunch, Ok you do not have to eat much but dinner, well here we want candle-light, we want some great food and wine, and a solo violinist or lone mandolin player or how about a tenor…would not go amiss!

3. Why not arrange breakfast in bed for the first night of your stay or for all the nights if you prefer. You can ask for a morning feast and this will be subject to where you are staying in Italy, from fresh strawberries and Italian Prosecco to a tray of fresh fruit ranging from fresh figs and grapes, to oranges, pears and apples, sliced and cut for you to dip in your prosecco or champagne. Or why not ask for a whole tray of Italian pastries or an Italian version of an English cooked breakfast and of course all in your room.

4. Why not have a pampering session where you both spend the whole day being pampered? How does a full body massage sound or a complete facial or body wrap. Perhaps you would like a morning at the hair salon to get your hair styled or French manicure or foot massage and pedicure or a day at a spa or why not a whole afternoon at a spa?

5. Why not get the organizer of your honeymoon surprise your loved one. Go back to your hotel room and it is all set up and waiting.. Rose petals on the bed, sensuous and aromatic candles, your bath tub filled with petals and sweet smelling bubble bath.

6. Hire a boat for the evening and this can either be a small boat with a fishing lantern or a super deluxe yacht and go off on your own private tour, just the two of you with the skipper. If the budget permits why not have lunch on board, we can arrange your own personal chef or a simple spaghettata on board.

7. Allow us to create a banquet just for the two of you. This can be arranged on your terrace overlooking the calm waters of the Mediterranean or overlooking the endless landscape. You will have your own personal waiter and the courses will just keep on coming. We will prepare a 10- course meal which will be made up of portions which will be easy to eat, we call it Il Menu Degustazione. We will also consider the Foods of love … all subject to whether the food is in season and the area you are in. Asparagus (which was served to bridegrooms in the 19th century), banana, caviar (high in zinc), champagne, chocolate, figs, almond, vanilla, oysters and truffles. The stage will be set with candles and flowers.

8. Why not have your own personal shopper for the day or even half a day and buy your love one a special gift and allow our personal shopper to negotiate on your behalf Italian style, whether it be Italian fashion, leather goods, jewellery or other.

9. Spend the whole day in bed or on your rooftop Jacuzzi. Breakfast, lunch and dinner will be arranged just for you in your room.

10. This last one we leave entirely up to you......

Some Honeymoon Samples and Ideas.....

We could go on but these are just a few suggestions of Italian honeymoon destinations to get the romantic juices flowing and yes we have arranged this for our clients, of course staying here is all subject to your final budget, requirements and lots more. The main purpose of this blog is to assist you in finding the perfect location. There are so many places to recommend and the list is endless it is all purely based on your final budget. I have selected some options for you to consider and the budgets are all varied from low to really expensive just to take you through what is out there. I have selected places which the majority of tour operators and honeymooners do not even know exist and would not consider and you are all missing out big time….!!!

Italy is well marketed but it seems that the same places are constantly being mentioned however there are so many other places out there. Here are my Top 10 Italian destinations for 2010 and I have selected properties and areas for you to review.


Destination 1  We start our journey in Sicily – the island of Salina, the greenest and the most beautiful of the Aeolian islands. Here I have selected a great self catering house. What a great place for just the two of you. Quote and Click: Reference 2995

Destination 2  Another island which is truly undervalued is The Island of Pantelleria. This island is all about clear waters and great beaches. This is the island where you can really get away. On this island we have some great properties for you to get away from it all, whether it be hotel or self catering Quote reference: 2995. The properties here are expensive however discounts of up to 5% are available to honeymooners.

Destination number 3  Here we have something which is truly unique and truly different. We love this wonderful hotel in the heart of Mel Gibson’s The Passion of Christ. The area is magical and these are the only true words I can find. Here you are in a town but you are in the heart of its true origin. Situated in Matera, Basilicata, this hotel is the only hotel in the world with a natural extravagance based within prehistoric caves. This new & unique 5 star eco-luxury boutique hotel and conservation project is set in a UNESCO World Heritage Site, offering unspoilt views over the canyon’s Byzantine cave churches, blending the contemporary with the ancient. Imagine Jerusalem in Italy! Quote and Click: Reference 3662

Destination 4 and close by to destination 3, we have the Beautiful region of Apulia. This area is rich in wonderful places to stay but for you here we have selected this amazing 5 star Masseria. A masseria is a fortified farmhouse. Commonly found in southern Italy, the masserie used to be part of large estates. Sometimes they were occupied by the owners but more often by the farmworkers. Depending on the area, they were occupied seasonally and the animal stalls used to store winter food and harvested crops. The period of construction was the 16th and 17th centuries. Here you have everything which money could possibly buy.... a private beach, a corner specialising in Japanese cuisine, an Aveda spa, access to a golf course... should I go on. Quote and Click: Reference 2017

However for those of you in search of simplicity and charm, there is something here for you too, this wonderful family run and charming Agriturismo in Ostuni awaits. Quote and Click: Reference 2032 

Destination number 5 is The Amalfi Coast. Another great location for a honeymoon and here there is so very much to choose from however we have kept it simple and charming. For you here we have selected Furore. Here we have a great property. Right up in the mountains. There are only 9 double rooms available with ensuite facilities, air-conditioning, and TV. With an excellent restaurant and outside terraces. The views from here are just unbelievable and not recommended for those amongst you afraid of heights.  Quote and Click: Reference 2869

Destination 6 As our number 6, we have selected a small town outside Rome. A quiet location but so very beautiful and intact. Here we have the perfect bed and breakfast and we only provide you with a suite. A wonderful place to spend your honeymoon and like destination 5 it will not break the bank. Reference 2682

Our number 7 Is the region of Abruzzo. What a place is available here. One of Italy’s most innovative and sophisticated residential retreats is located in a mediaeval village in the Gran Sasso Natural Park of the Abruzzo region. Created as a result of the owner’s great interest in art and the popular culture of this mountainous area. The hotel - a fusion of refined, imposing mediaeval architecture and modern technology - contains 32 luxury bedrooms, all of which differ considerably in terms of internal décor and the forms of restructuring adopted. The extreme luxury of the accommodation here is generated by the great care that was taken over every fine detail and by the choice of original and simple, locally-produced fittings, high-quality fabrics and an almost imperceptible use of advanced technology. Recommended for those of you who really want to get away. Quote and Click: Reference 3665

Number 8 Piedmont to the North of Italy. We have selected a 17th century monastery which has now been transformed nto a stunning and discreet relais. Set in a little village in le Langhe, near Alba, the Relais is the perfect vantage point for a journey of colours, fragrances and flavours, a land of exceptional wines, accompanied by typical products like cheeses, hazelnuts and a cuisine of extremely high standards which is Michelin star rated. Quote and Click: Reference 3663

Our Top 9 Lake Orta. Recently, interest in this lake has grown and I do not know why it took so long as this is a great location. For you here we have selected this interesting location. We have a great gourmet package for you to savour. Quote and Click:  Reference 2142

Our top 10 is something completely different…. If your budget will allow why not tour Italy or visit Italy but instead of going for the conventional car hire, why not enjoy luxury car hire. Get a true sense of adventure and luxury by visiting this beautiful country in a Porsche or a Maserati or an Audi R8. This is a once in a life time experience and we are happy to tailor make your honeymoon or trip to Italy where you can move about freely and we will select the best driving roads for you to take full advantage of the car. All you will need to bring is your sunglasses and CDs !! OR why not surprise your partner. We can arrange for the car to be delivered to your hotel and even have a red bow tied round it…..